Lately, I've found myself pondering the unpredictable nature of life. No matter how meticulously we plan, it seems life delights in throwing unexpected obstacles our way. This truth becomes all the more apparent when you factor in the complexities of motherhood. Everything was planned and ironed out. Rock solid was my intention and motivation. I got the tools and I got to work. 

Recently, I dove headfirst into launching two websites simultaneously, driven by a fierce determination akin to a caged bull craving sunlight.  Relaunching my old business felt like second nature—a familiar rodeo despite the changing times. While teaching new students from a different generation presented its own set of challenges, it was a path I knew well. The only real obstacle was the tyrant named social media that could not be tamed. It is forever hungry and never satisfied. I ignore its cries since I insist on living a true life.

My new business venture here on Moms Shimmy Back was a new challenge something meaningful, something relevant of today, and giving a voice to mothers who want to connect beyond social media screens. I set out on my journey from the moment I launched my website to make those connections and I did.

Lots of projects and connections were made within a few months but of course, life curve balls have to be thrown into the mix to test whether or not you are as committed as you say you are. These obstacles that came my way did push me back but they did not knock me down. I got off balance but I reconfigured. Due to the circumstances, I had to redirect the goals up ahead. Instead of leading with the plan with three horses, I had to prioritize one at a time. Who knew that one horse leading now was the one that was quietly waiting at the stables ready to propel forward like a warrior? I for one had no idea even though this was happening in my brain.

You must be thinking why is this woman talking in metaphors that sound almost like riddles? Well, that's simply the way my mind operates. As an artist, my thoughts are a kaleidoscope of colors and intricate details. Despite my wonderous mind, I am extremely goal-focused and a workaholic. If my calendar is not color-coordinated with errands, work, and upcoming events, I do not know what to do with myself. A dedication that borders on obsession.

This plate of mine is always full. Factor in the pressure to fulfill all my duties as a mom and wife, since that sits at the forefront akin to everything I do. So in a nutshell, I hate when my plans get halted and stirred in another direction. It does feel like taking a step forward but then taking a step back. It is madness but you have to readjust and run with the punches.

I know what I have to do and will continue to do. If any mother is reading this and happens to be at a place where she thinks she got it all figured out but gets delayed, don’t fret you got this. Do the work and don’t give up. You owe it to yourself. 😉